Little Known Dating Tips, Secrets, and Dating Mistakes

By John Alanis

I hear it over and over��It was going so great, and then she disappeared on me� why? What happened�we were having such a great time together. I�m tired of this happening�I want to date sexy women, but I want them to stick around. Do you have any dating tips for me?�

Yes, I do. Every time I talk to a guy who tells me this, I discover he�s making the exact same mistakes most guys do, dating mistakes that kill his chances of successfully dating sexy women. So, I give him some dating tips to skyrocket his success with sexy women. Here are the most common ones:

Dating tip #1: Don�t date. Yes, that�s right�don�t date. Think about a traditional �date��it�s full of pressure, awkwardness, evaluation and it just plain sucks. What do you do on a �traditional date?� Dinner, movie, kiss goodnight, she doesn�t return your calls. Or you have drinks, and try to �make your move,� and we all know where that ends up. Much better (and cheaper) to meet for coffee�it�s fun and relaxed with none of the normal dating expectations.

Dating tip #2: The less you do and say, the more she�s attracted to you. Most guys try to impress sexy women, or �lay a rap� on them. Sexy women have heard it all before. But, if you ask her about herself, shut up and listen, and display a SMALL degree of interest, she�ll begin to wonder why you�re not slobbering all over her. She�ll want to discover more� now you�re a challenge, and sexy women love challenging guys. Why? Because they rarely meet one. This is a HUGE dating tip.

Dating tip #3 Be a �naughty little boy.� Another big dating tip. Remember the �class clown� in elementary school�the guy who was �cool and funny� all at the same time? When you�re talking to sexy women, make unexpected and mischievous comments, the kind that leave them thinking, �I can�t believe he just said that� but I like it.� This shows sexy women you�re NOT impressed by their looks, that you need to see more. This is so different from what they�re used to they can�t help but be attracted. I cannot emphasize the importance of this dating tip.

Dating tip #4 Avoid all canned pick up lines, �laying a rap,� or any type of �acting.� Sexy women have heard it all before, and as soon as you spout one, you�re instantly a JAG (just another guy). And JAG�s don�t get sexy women�remember this dating tip!

Dating tip #5 Sexy women are approached and hit on 20 to 30 times a day. This is their world�to get into it, you have to be different from the 20 guys who�ve already talked to her. (see Dating tip #3 for how to be different to sexy women).

Dating tip #6 Look out for her tests. Sexy women (indeed, all women) will test you to see if you�ll stand up to them. If you can�t stand up to her, you can�t stand up for her. If she asks you to buy her things, that�s a test�and a perfect opportunity to be a �naughty little boy� (see Dating tip #3). Say something like, �What do I look like an ATM machine? You should buy ME something, just for the privilege of spending time with me. I like sexy women who buy me things!� This is said in a playful�yet firm�manner that lets her know you�re onto her. When you pass their tests, it drives sexy women wild with desire. Very important dating tip.

Dating tip #7 Date multiple sexy women at once, and make sure the others know about it. Sexy women love a man who is attractive to other sexy women, and will compete to �win you.� (Here�s another dating tip: for proof of this, read any good romance novel). If you want to settle down, you can choose one, but she will always know you�re desired by other sexy women�and in a strange way, this creates even more attraction for you. This dating tip really is a secret, but it works very well with sexy women.

OK, guys, that�s it for this article. Obviously there are lots of other dating tips, tricks and secrets to put to use, but if you pay attention to these dating tips, you�ll be a heckuva lot more successful with sexy women. Now, go re-read all the dating tips!

On with the fun�
-John Alanis, Dating Tips Master
�The King of Let �em Come to You�

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About The Author

John Alanis is the author of �Secrets of Natural Attraction: How to Get Desirable, Beautiful Sexy women to Chase You.� He also publishes a daily �politically incorrect attraction and dating tips� newsletter that reveals how to get desirable, beautiful sexy women to approach men for a date first, no matter your looks, age or income. You can subscribe to John�s daily �sexy women approach you secrets� by going to http://www.womenapproachyou.com. Upon subscription, John immediately sends you five free �how to get beautiful, sexy women to approach you!� reports, chock full of �hidden secrets� dating tips.